Heritage
Born England, 1971. To an English mother and a West-Indian father. That makes me "MIXED - White and Black Caribbean" on all those ethnicity forms we seem to be filling out these days, here in England. My parents met in the early 60s in East Anglia while both working as nurses in the RAF. Mum is a Norfolk lass while my Dad hails from Port-of-Spain, Trinidad & Tobago.
I am the 3rd of 5 siblings - Two brothers and two sisters, whose names I will be happy to add if and when they give me permission. Two of them work in universities, one for an NGO charity and the other is an actuary.
I was born in Wiltshire towards the south-western part of the UK, but was raised from an early age in North Norfolk. Because of my skin colour and mixed features people usually have absolutely no idea where I am from or what is my ethnicity. This is great for holidays, as I can go to virtually any part of the world and be taken for a local. It can be a little more perplexing, however, when fellow countrymen struggle to accept that I am 'one of them'. The over-riding reaction is usually one of mild disappointment when - despite my exotic looks and family name - I report that I am just a rural Norfolk 'bor'! (albeit one who really should be more informed about and in touch with the West Indian side of my heritage - sort it out father!).
The family name Seecharan is a pretty common Trinidadian surname, of Indian origin. Apparently Dad's paternal grandfather travelled to the West Indies circa mid-1850s as part of a group of indentured slaves travelling under the 'batch' name Seecharan. The exact origins of the Indian side of the family is subject to debate in the family, but currently thought to be Northern India. Dad's Mother had a french surname, DuPree, due to a Creole background. Little more is known of the West Indian family tree, not helped in part by the fact that the local office of birth and death records burned to the ground, so the story goes.
The need for a good education was a dominant theme during my child & teen years. I speak for myself here not my siblings, whose own individual childhood perspectives I cannot vouch for. Apart from wanting me to be the best that I can be, a solid education was seen as dependable antidote to the natural prejudices that might stand in the way of a mixed race Brit in a predominantly non-mixed world. This lesson (or possibly better phrased 'note of caution') must have had an impact as the family now hold 10 degrees and three professions between us. I benefitted enormously, in my view from being given a private education. It was clear as soon as I left school and entered the 'real' world what an incredible privilege and opportunity had been given to me. In a world where consumer materialism is often the benchmark against which our successes and failures are mapped, I believe nevertheless, that there can be no comparison with the value of having (and recognising the importance of) a good education. I firmly believe that the only thing stopping me from pursuing a career of any distinction is my desire to do so. In one generation, it is my view that my working class mother and immigrant father have created a legacy that will last generations: the intellectual freedom and belief that there is no ceiling. And this, in spite of the perceived disadvantage of my 'exotic' name and features. They are both retired now and one would hope they are able to enjoy it, while patting themselves on the back for a job well done.
Mum has 6 siblings and Dad is one of 5 children. This means I have a massive 35 first cousins who, along with their children, number over 100! Now that would be one hell of a family business ...
I got married!! In February 2010. A fantastic day with some lovely positive feedback already from many friends and family. The professional pictures have been sifted through and organised and are now available at Chris Taylor's website (email me if you would like the password to the whole album, which is linked at the end of the pictures of our day shown on his blog). M & I currently live and are building a life together here in Brighton on the South Coast, within spitting distance of the sea, with M's son 'F' - the 8 year old household pocket rocket!